"Life is what
happens to you, while you're busy making other plans" is a well-
known quote from John Lennon.
Today seems to be a
good illustration of this and the challenge here is ‘how to deal with that?’
Yesterday evening,
my twin flame Richard and I made a plan for today. We decided that I would come
over to his place after lunch, to spend the afternoon enjoying each other’s
company and to have a meal together.
This morning, when
I looked through the window, I saw a winter wonderland with more than 5 cm of
snow, and counting. Beautiful circumstances for a lot of activities, like
playing with the dog, or staying indoors and get some work done there. But driving
15 km over the winding roads on the
hills of the Haute Vienne to my beloved twin flame, in my car with ordinary
tyres…….that is not such a smart idea, unfortunately.
Obviously, we can
dive into the frustration about this change of plans, not liking it, because it
interferes with what we want. In doing so, we will most likely spoil our mood
and ‘joy de vivre’ and label the whole day as ‘rotten’. Although I know that I
would prefer going to Richard, this afternoon, instead of sobbing, I’d rather make the most of this day and enjoy
the possibilities it offers me. I can write this blog entry, invest time in
attracting the job I need to support my life financially, take a nice warm bath,
prepare a meal and speak to Richard on Skype. All of these are things I need
and I am grateful for receiving them.
Being on that
position… it’s a beautiful day!
Ah the lovely, blessed snow. Playing out with the dog? Check and yes, she loved it. Not being able to have the afternoon with my twinflame? Hmm, not the best idea but let's see. I know I should be decorating, so is this the universe telling me to get on with it? I'd best take heed of the message and find that paintbrush........... And anyway, Skype over 15km is a great idea. Can't help but love Skype. Can't help but love my twinflame! :)
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